Ms Bumble's Rantings

Touchy Subject

Ms Bumble — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 02:29:31 +0000

I’ve figured out that when a girl is in a relationship she goes through different periods.

Based on what I know from my relationship with Mr.Fluffy, I can now say I’ve observed the following “cycle of love”:

The First Year:
The first 8 months of the relationship -> Everything is darn diggity good! Nope, nothing wrong here.
The remaining 4 months -> Somehow, someway, there’s gonna be a big argument. (This can happen before 8 months or a bit after)

The Second Year:
The first half of the year -> You’re really starting to get to know the person. You’re picking up some traits you do like but at the same time you’re learning about traits that you don’t like. This is the first test to see if you are willing to accept his bad qualities and move on.He finally does something that totally shocks you – perhaps it was that he actually got mad at you after all, you were the only one mad at him for the past year.
Later part of the year -> Theres some arguments, some fights here and there. You guys aren’t as crazy for each other as year one anymore, but you feel something mutual going on. Even though you guys weren’t as crazy for each other anymore, you understand that there’s more of a bond between you two now than anything.

The Woman’s mood swing cycle: (based on a monthly basis)

About a week before her period – You hate him. He’s not doing this right, He’s not doing that right. You feel that he’s just not doing SOMETHING and therefore you have to pick on him. Just a few days before your period you feel all depressed. WOE IS ME…well maybe not but you see things in a negative way more.
The days that you get your period - You cry and you love him again. You miss him and you are all over him. You want Love, affection and attention…cuz afterall…that’s mostly what we want. At times when you are getting your horrible cramps you get a bit irritated but afterall you want him there to make you feel good so you are not cranky. You want him to take that goddamn cramp pain away!!!!!!!
The days after your period is gone – You’re okay with him. Things are back to normal. Everything’s okay. This only lasts for about…over a week or so.

Next month is rinse and repeat!

Hm…atleast that’s what MY Cycle of love is. I’m really starting to notice a pattern here. I’ve been with Mr.Fluffy for two and a half years. We are still young but I thought it was interesting to write down my crazy cycles. It always happens like this…it’s all formulated!

Through all the I hate you’s and I love you’s and I hate you’s again…….in the end you can picture yourself standing there and you’re back to I love you. I guess being a girl in a relationship is a huge rollercoaster ride. I can hate him one day, tell him he sucks but then again I’m only back to loving him the next.

I wonder how long this kind of love will last? Maybe we are just at our development stages now. I don’t want to grow out of this love or have it change for anything in the world. I love it just the way it is, I love him just the way he is.

The thing is, one day you will tell him you can’t accept him for the way he is and you complain about nonsense, but in the end you still tell yourself that you DO accept him and his flaws. Well…if you didnt then I’m sure you wouldn’t be with him for that long, right?

No one knows what the future holds, maybe in relationships we THINK are RIGHT are actually WRONG for us. Maybe what we think is TRUE is actually FALSE….or maybe, just MAYBE, what we truly feel is the best for us really is. How do you really “know” ?

My answer is, you don’t. You won’t know and you’ll never know until you go out there and let it happen. But ask yourself this: If this relationship were to backfire, would I regret any of this?

I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t regret loving Mr.Fluffy, I don’t regret the times he’s been there for me, gone out of his way for me (I can list alot of the things he did for me). I really do appreciate him. So…do you appreciate yours?

Busy Busy Week

Ms Bumble — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 17:19:35 +0000

Sorry, MsBumble has been quite busy lately with her life so she wasn’t able to post as much!
What’s so amazing today was the fact that I was on the bus thinking about break ups. What exactly do couples feel towards break ups? It is not all easy like people say or make it seem. In fact it’s even harder when you’ve been with someone for years. Feelings come and go, sometimes feelings can change a bit for one person but in the end, whenever the thought of breaking up and knowing that person will be devastated still brings tears. For couples who have been together for quite sometime, is that how it is? Thinking about the possibility of a breakup one day and realizing that it can’t be done. Even fantasizing about it will make you feel sad and depressed. After everything these couples have gone through how many of them actually appreciate and look back to see the road they’ve walked through together?

How many have actually, despite all the arguments, stop to think about the ups and downs they’ve been through?

How many actually stop to think: “Man it sucks and ya sometimes I’m such a bitch but…man…we’ve been through a lot together…and I’m not quite ready to end it yet.”

I think that line might be able to save some relationships or marriages. However if you find yourself not being able to say that in all honesty, then perhaps it’s better to break up.

Make your own Starbucks Latte?!?!?!

Ms Bumble — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 17:56:53 +0000

I was reading up on Hollywoodgrind.com today and I came across a very interesting news post they did on how to make your own latte. This is, of course, going to save all us coffee drinkers BIG BUCKS. I find myself buying alot of coffee in the morning so that I don’t fall asleep during class.

If you are interested in knowing how to make your own Starbucks Latte, click here.

Friend Days…Wierd Days

Ms Bumble — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:49:58 +0000

It’s funny how sometimes the friends you know whom you haven’t really hung out with for the past 3-4 years still manage to get a hold of you. Yet when you go and hang out with them, even if its for that one day, you still feel close to that person. I’ve known Ms. ADA (I put that because I dont want to expose her name on here) since the beginning of my freshman yr of college. I think she’s one of the people who I’ve known for a while and yet still be able to keep in touch. We don’t hang out as much as we use to but I felt so at ease today with her. We talked about alot of things, mainly just how her life was since we left off. She has changed a bit but not as much as most people would. She seems to be alot more outgoing in that she is an active club person as well as a scuba student!

My last class ran into some technical difficulties and we were all let out early!! (as I had tweeted earlier) I’m definitely looking forward to the 3-day weekend (Columbus day). Although this weekend would probably not be as exciting as the last few (due to ten million papers being due all next week), I’ll still try to make some time out and relax a little. What I find strange is that all the professors always coordinate or somehow manage to make due dates all within the same week…..

Talking about weird, I hung out briefly with some old music building school friends and I came across this: (My friend, AA gave me this flyer and I thought it was quite odd. I’ve also included a youtube promo of this SURVIVABALL)

Backstreet Boys!!!

Ms Bumble — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:02:15 +0000

Today and last night was all sorts of weird. There was thunder and rain pour suddenly last night and knocked off my internet! I was talking to Mr.Fluffy till really late last night – probably not as late as it should be. Now I’m here and listening to the winds howl but the weird thing is…the sun is out?!? It went to gloomy morning to sunshine ville in a matter of 2 seconds. I think the weather is PMS-ing and having its mood swings.

So onto the good stuff ->

Backstreet Boys are back with a new album that came out October 6th! This is Us is a great album that consists of only 4 out of the 5 backstreet boys, however, it is still good. Catchy rhythm and tunes, the boys have definitely made a great comeback this year.

Go check out their album and I have a preview of the album titled song This Is Us

Also, Brian Littrell has been diagnosed with the swine flu!!! God bless him and our best wishes go out to him to get well soon!

Watch his announcement here

GET WELL BRIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Crazy Introduction

Ms Bumble — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 12:11:01 +0000

This is my (Ms.Bumble) first blog! I don’t really know which direction I’m taking it but I am definitely going to see what springs to my mind. This is made after the fact that Mr.Fluffy had given me the idea to create a blog. However, the content he wanted on it..well…lets leave that in for the future.

First off, this being an introduction, I should let you all know that I am a GAMER! What does that mean? That I have many lives? Ya, I wish.

No-I tend to enjoy finding entertainment and pleasure through playing games. I am a Farmviller, I would go on my facebook everyday just to check my farm. Mr.Fiffy would hear my annoying clicks and he would know right away that I’m on farmville.

I am also a proud musician. I’ve been a pianist for most of my life: from age 4 till now. I have been a big lover of classical music, especially that of choral pieces, piano solos, concertos and certain symphonies. Now please don’t go ahead and judge that I am a ultra scrawny geek like or some kind of Ugly Betty–I’m not. I also enjoy listening to jazz, pop, rock, rnb, you name it! However, being a professional musician means that you learn to appreciate all sorts of music- not necessarily like them.

BUT let’s stop talking about me as I am sure I’m boring most of you. I am going to go ahead and introduce the game of my year (yes, the game I’ve currently been putting my full attention towards.)

Yes I’ve been playing World of Warcraft. Now I know many people are like “wow…isn’t that the game all geeks play for 8 hours a day without eating, sleeping or drinking?”– I assure you that I do eat, sleep and drink. I encourage everyone of all ages (especially the older folks) to try the World of Warcraft. You might say “oh god this is not for me, I can’t even send an e-mail properly!” Well don’t despair because all the colors and animation will keep you wanting to do more and more.

I’ve known alot of older folks who do play this game and who are currently in my World of Warcraft guild. I’ve also seen a huge number of females taking on this game. The $15 you pay a month will eventually be worth it once you get into the game alittle more. Remember that the $15 is basically for the type of service you get – keeping the community happy and tending to your needs through customer serive and what not. Keep in mind that there are not many other MMORPGs (Massively Multiplayer Online Role Playing Games) out there that can compare to Blizzard’s World of Warcraft. No, I am not working in their advertising department but perhaps I should!