I’ve figured out that when a girl is in a relationship she goes through different periods.
Based on what I know from my relationship with Mr.Fluffy, I can now say I’ve observed the following “cycle of love”:
The First Year:
The first 8 months of the relationship -> Everything is darn diggity good! Nope, nothing wrong here.
The remaining 4 months -> Somehow, someway, there’s gonna be a big argument. (This can happen before 8 months or a bit after)
The Second Year:
The first half of the year -> You’re really starting to get to know the person. You’re picking up some traits you do like but at the same time you’re learning about traits that you don’t like. This is the first test to see if you are willing to accept his bad qualities and move on.He finally does something that totally shocks you – perhaps it was that he actually got mad at you after all, you were the only one mad at him for the past year.
Later part of the year -> Theres some arguments, some fights here and there. You guys aren’t as crazy for each other as year one anymore, but you feel something mutual going on. Even though you guys weren’t as crazy for each other anymore, you understand that there’s more of a bond between you two now than anything.
The Woman’s mood swing cycle: (based on a monthly basis)
About a week before her period – You hate him. He’s not doing this right, He’s not doing that right. You feel that he’s just not doing SOMETHING and therefore you have to pick on him. Just a few days before your period you feel all depressed. WOE IS ME…well maybe not but you see things in a negative way more.
The days that you get your period - You cry and you love him again. You miss him and you are all over him. You want Love, affection and attention…cuz afterall…that’s mostly what we want. At times when you are getting your horrible cramps you get a bit irritated but afterall you want him there to make you feel good so you are not cranky. You want him to take that goddamn cramp pain away!!!!!!!
The days after your period is gone – You’re okay with him. Things are back to normal. Everything’s okay. This only lasts for about…over a week or so.
Next month is rinse and repeat!
Hm…atleast that’s what MY Cycle of love is. I’m really starting to notice a pattern here. I’ve been with Mr.Fluffy for two and a half years. We are still young but I thought it was interesting to write down my crazy cycles. It always happens like this…it’s all formulated!
Through all the I hate you’s and I love you’s and I hate you’s again…….in the end you can picture yourself standing there and you’re back to I love you. I guess being a girl in a relationship is a huge rollercoaster ride. I can hate him one day, tell him he sucks but then again I’m only back to loving him the next.
I wonder how long this kind of love will last? Maybe we are just at our development stages now. I don’t want to grow out of this love or have it change for anything in the world. I love it just the way it is, I love him just the way he is.
The thing is, one day you will tell him you can’t accept him for the way he is and you complain about nonsense, but in the end you still tell yourself that you DO accept him and his flaws. Well…if you didnt then I’m sure you wouldn’t be with him for that long, right?
No one knows what the future holds, maybe in relationships we THINK are RIGHT are actually WRONG for us. Maybe what we think is TRUE is actually FALSE….or maybe, just MAYBE, what we truly feel is the best for us really is. How do you really “know” ?
My answer is, you don’t. You won’t know and you’ll never know until you go out there and let it happen. But ask yourself this: If this relationship were to backfire, would I regret any of this?
I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t regret loving Mr.Fluffy, I don’t regret the times he’s been there for me, gone out of his way for me (I can list alot of the things he did for me). I really do appreciate him. So…do you appreciate yours?
