Sorry, MsBumble has been quite busy lately with her life so she wasn’t able to post as much!
What’s so amazing today was the fact that I was on the bus thinking about break ups. What exactly do couples feel towards break ups? It is not all easy like people say or make it seem. In fact it’s even harder when you’ve been with someone for years. Feelings come and go, sometimes feelings can change a bit for one person but in the end, whenever the thought of breaking up and knowing that person will be devastated still brings tears. For couples who have been together for quite sometime, is that how it is? Thinking about the possibility of a breakup one day and realizing that it can’t be done. Even fantasizing about it will make you feel sad and depressed. After everything these couples have gone through how many of them actually appreciate and look back to see the road they’ve walked through together?
How many have actually, despite all the arguments, stop to think about the ups and downs they’ve been through?
How many actually stop to think: “Man it sucks and ya sometimes I’m such a bitch but…man…we’ve been through a lot together…and I’m not quite ready to end it yet.”
I think that line might be able to save some relationships or marriages. However if you find yourself not being able to say that in all honesty, then perhaps it’s better to break up.